"don't u think 19's too young to be played by your dark twisted games when I loved you, " omg I'm crying😭😭

Imagine being fuck and chucked by John Mayer and pretending it was love 😂 stupid girl, John Mayer was on top of the world at this point and could have any woman he wanted

Such a sweet melody...

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Brave girl

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Kinda sad how she wrote “the story of us” after. (The story of us is the same person in dear john) Even though we know how much it hurted her, but she still put her amour down cause she’d rather love than fight

Fuck John Mayer.There I said it!!!!!

Whose here in 2019

The girl in the dress won a Grammy!

I never told anyone, but when I'm 10 y.o I love a man who was 25, he know about it. At first I know she like my friend who was 18 at that time. So I just quiet about itBut I think my friend said about it to him. Suddenly he became so nice with me, I bought him food, paid his cellular phone bill with my saving, and something like that. I did that almost one month. But after that, I realize, he never really care about me. It just me, and she is not a good friend of mine too, she let him used me. I hated both of them But after a long time, years after that I know she can't go to college because she's too stupid and now she's working but is not enough so she move out (I know from the neighbors), they pity her. And her parents divorce and leave herAnd for the man, he getting married, and have a job too but struggle with it because Its not enough from his own need and his family. He move out too, I never heard anything again. His parents divorce tooHere I am, so grateful can go to college, will graduate soon with a good score, my mom and dad always loving me and support me. I will continue my magister program and had internship abroad last year. Im grateful, Im not regret at all just grateful. They make me stronger. Inside of my heart Im thankful and sad (feeling sorry) for them. Maybe it because their situation they did thatThat's why "Dear john" and "mean" are relatable to me. Hope all of you doing well guys :))

I never once thought I'd connect so much to a song, especially this one. Every lyric touches my heart. The whole song explains my not so lasting relationship, it lasted for about 3 months. My ex threw signals I shouldn't have ignored. She manipulated me, and threw me under the bus every time I tried running away. Lies were spread, and it hurt. Putting so much of your heart and soul into a relationship with an individual who treats you like dirt hurts like hell. Emotional abuse is never okay. I highly suggest leaving your relationship if your partner is treating you badly. No, they aren't going to change. Your love for them isn't going to change their god awful flaws.

Wah wah wah, This girl is a fucking cancer, She can't keep a relationship for more than 3 months. Shes the issue.

dunno why i just love her old Songs, sorry :(

I think she really loved John. And I think John really!! was the one who HURT HURT her. This song is so fucking deep

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Where’s my 2019 gang at

2019 anyone?

She can write a good song.

Who is in 2019

John’s New Light brought me here...

My ex's name is John and he used to be psychologically abusive. I was 19 years old when we started dating and he really took advantage of my lack of experience and most of all of my affection toward him. This song is so relatable to me, it's like looking back at those three awful years of my life, this really reads my heart and soul.

This reminds me of my ex best friend

Came here right after listening to half of my heart by john mayer ❤️

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Well at least she didn't lost her virginity to himInstead she lost it to guy who didn't even show up at her birthday

I love this!!!!!!!

"well maybe it's me, and my blind optimism to blame"i felt that 💔

2019 anyone?

Dear jooooooohn~

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It's march 2019 nd still not over this masterpiece.....

2019? anyone????

I like this song

This song makes me think in the movie Lolita, it's like her point of view.

Her writing was very lyrical before she switched to pop. It's a shame she's selling herself short.

Did he sexually abuse her?

Anyone in 2019? I think I'm the only one who is still crying in March 2019 😭😭😭

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Buzzfeed said I should listen to this but its trash

Is it bad that I had no idea who John Mayer was before I listened to this for the first time?

Sigh I relate

#teamjohnmayer

Still love this song like if you’re from 2019

2019 here

Listening in 2019 anyone?

Cancelled all john

I used to love Taylor's music when I was in middle school/high school but I had no idea how much I'd be able to relate to it as an adult. Glad I can come back to certain songs every now and then when I need to know that someone else has felt the way that I do

I feel bad for every time I skipped this song and called it "boring"... Unfortunately, when you do understand and relate to this song, you 100% do. I now almost never skip it. Instead I listen and remember...

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I think I’m crying Taylor say Dear John

Dam John, you need to get you're shit together

2019 Anyone?

The guitar line is super John Mayer-ish ahahhaaha

Don't you think I was too young to be messed with???😞

Wondering which version of you i might get on the phone tonight .. Relatable

2019 anyone?

Dooo ya? Do you think about me?? Oh no... it's not Ruin😂

This song is so beautifull.. I wanna cry coz I'm feeling her pain. She spilled her heart out man. Too fantastic.

its 2019, who's still listening to this song? coz I still do. 💛💛💛

I have never had my heart broken but this song makes me feel like I did 💔

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who else misses the old Tay Tay?

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That song describe essactly what happen when a was 19 years old he was 32

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Wonderin’ wich version of you I might get on the phone tonight.

2018

2019 anyone?

Sad song

It's sad that people see this song as just another shade to one of her exes cause it describes perfectly an abusive relationship. how her mother tried to warn her but she didn't listen (usually people who are in an abusive relationship are the last ones to notice their relationship is unhealthy). how he would make her feel good just so he could bring her down and then do it all over and over ("you paint me a blue sky and go back and turn it to rain" and "maybe it's you and your sick need to give love then take it away"). those kind of abusers make their victims feel insecure so then they can make them feel good again but in a way that makes them think they need them (the abusers) to feel that good. and honestly "You are an expert at sorry, and keeping lines blurry.Never impressed by me acing your testsAll the girls that you've run dryHave tired, lifeless eyesCause you burned them outBut I took your matches before fire could catch meSo don't look nowI'm shining like fireworksOver your sad empty town" is such a strong lyrics with an even stronger message i can't believe people sleep on this song so much(sorry for any mistakes, english is not my first language)

Paper doll

I love this 💜

I would prolly be really upset if John Mayer broke my heart too. He’s the whole package.

Brings me back to when I was a little girl. I had speak now when I was 9, my dad got it for me with what little money he had at the time. I don’t listen to this type of music anymore, but I still love this song so much. So much nostalgia.❤️

plot twist john wrote this song

My sister was 14, I was 4. She and I were really close. But 3 years later she and my father got in a fight. I haven't seen her in 4 years and I always come back to this video. She made a personal music video made just for me, on my birthday, because she knew I was obsessed with it. I cry everytime I hear this, remembering the day she moved out and never came back.

Love this song! So emotional and beautiful.

im shining like a fireworks, over your sad empty town

2019??

Poor john

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The girl that cried wolf so many times in so many relationships that no one believes the dude is really a wolf anymore lol

This is the person that says she new Harry Styles was trouble when he walked in... He is the purest gentleman to ever live so I don't believe ur the victim anymore lol

I think the fact that she is always in short term relationships and immediately writes songs attacking the men and saying that they are the wrong ones EVERY FLIPPING TIME....bruh. Stop playing the victim

Lagunya ngena banget 😥 jd terbawa sm emosi d lagu ini.. tay keren bgt !!!!!!!!!!! ❤

2019 anyone?

2019 anyone?

i love this, i dont doubt that taylor still a queen of pop

Superman: “he’s not all bad like his reputation. I can’t hear a single word they say.”Dear john: “and I’ll look back and regret how I ignored them when they said run as fast as you can.”

2019 still nice song

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After dating two narcissistic men, this song really hits home. One of them I was with for many, many years. He broke me down like nothing else.. made me feel completely worthless. The other I dated for two months before all of his lies were exposed, and thank God, I walked away. These lyrics are so incredibly true though.. they will paint you a blue sky and turn around and change it to rain. They love to give love and take it away. They are totally different people depending on the day. You constantly wonder when they are going to leave you again, but then you know they never stay gone. As soon as you think you might be moving on, they come back to toy with your emotions some more. Everything is a game. You constantly feel like you are going crazy and that you have to jump through hoops to please them, and you will never be good enough to them no matter what you do. Because no one can please them. Everything gets blamed on you to a point of it making no sense and being ridiculous. And sometimes you can't see all of it until you are away from it. Then suddenly it becomes clear. They really are experts are keeping the lines blurry and manipulating. All of these lyrics ring true. There is nothing to do with people like that except for walk away. They are manipulative liars. Walk away, and find someone who will treat you better. They are out there.

2019

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Anyone in 2019? Haha

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2019 everyone?

2019 anyone??

Miss you Taytay